I NEVER THOUGHT I'D NEED OR GO TO A THERAPIST, BUT MY WIFE - AND EVEN A COUPLE OF FRIENDS TOLD ME I SHOULD. AT FIRST I WAS NERVOUS - I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT, OR EVEN WHAT TO SAY.BUT THIS GUY WAS GREAT: HE MADE IT EASY TO TALK - REALLY MADE ME FEEL COMFORTABLE.HE EXPLAINED WHAT THIS WAS ALL ABOUT - HOW LOTS OF PEOPLE HAVE PROBLEMS - JUST LIKE ME....SOME PEOPLE SEE HIM BECAUSE THEY FEEL DOWN, SOME FEEL ANXIOUS AND SCARED, OTHERS HAVE PROBLEMS AT WORK THAT THEY NEED TO FIGURE OUT. PAUL SEES MAINLY WOMEN - I THINK THAT'S BECAUSE THEY ARE BETTER AT TALKING ABOUT THINGS THAN MEN. BUT HE ALSO SPEAKS TO GUYS.AT FIRST I DIDN'T THINK I'D HAVE MUCH TO SAY - BUT AS TIME WENT ON, I WAS GETTING THINGS OFF MY CHEST I PROBABLY SHOULD HAVE DONE A LONG TIME AGO: STUFF THAT STRESSES ME OUT - LIKE BETWEEN ME AND MY WIFE (ARGUMENTS AND THE LIKE)....ABOUT THE FAMILY: KIDS, THE HOUSE, MONEY.PAUL KNOWS HIS STUFF - HE REALLY LISTENS AND HAS REAL COMMON SENSE !ALL I KNOW IS I FEEL BETTER !